“I just called to tell you that ‘I miss you’.”
Word of advice to the ladies: Just take it for what it is. Don’t read into it. Men AND society say that women are complex mammals. Apparently, we think more than necessary, assume the unimaginable, and question everything that hits us. Our defense/response to those allegations: we’re the way we are because of the *bumps* in the road that had hit our hearts along the way. It’s our way of protecting ourselves because if we can’t do it on our own, no one will do it for us. We do more than necessary in order to save us from the harm of those who claim they won’t hurt us. Ladies (to a number of you), lets be real. We do it because we’re scared, not because we’ve learned a lesson. SO the next time a MAN shares words of compassion to you, stop the initial reaction of wondering “Why are you saying this to me?” ”What did you do now?” “You haven’t said that in ages, why now?” Just stop the nonsense and see those words for what they are. When a MAN speaks, he’s resonating the voice of his heart and soul.
